First of all, you can see that the word spoil is in quotation marks, referring to what is usually considered, wrongly in my opinion, a "spoiled" child. I do not believe that a child "spoiled" is a child who is paid much attention, takes a lot in his arms, many pampering or play with him. For me a really bad-raised child is a child who is allowed to cry in the crib until he falls asleep, is treated as a hindrance or is not given the necessary attention.
It is often said that a child is a "spoiled" because he only sleeps in his arms. In the crib he cries and only manages to fall asleep in his arms, usually those of his mother. I would not call "spoiled" a baby who expresses openly that she prefers mom's warmth to being alone in her crib. I see it normal. Moreover, I consider it a very loving method of sleeping children, as well as sleeping in bed with their parents. I do not understand why you look with evil eyes at parents who let their children sleep with them or "go" to the double bed at night as if they were doing something wrong.
It is also often said that children were "spoiled" for having them stuck all day. I remember that when my second daughter was born, the first few weeks I slept all night on my chest, despite my kidney pain. Everyone told me that I was spoiling her, that I was getting used to her and that I would not sleep alone. I think that by becoming parents the fundamental thing is to focus on the connection with our baby and follow our instinct. In these cases, those outside are stick. For my baby it was the best way to sleep and I had no problem sleeping with her on the chest, moreover, I loved it. The girl woke up less at night probably because she felt safer, and if she wanted to breastfeed, she had the tit near her, I hardly even knew she did.
It is well known the phrase "it is good to take off a little". Who is good at? To parents who have the false fantasy that children take away "their space." Children do not make them more independent to take off from their parents, everything would be different. Childhood attachment gives them the security they need to face the circumstances of life.
With all this I mean flatly that you ignore those who think we spoil our children for pampering them too much. And if spoiling them is giving them excess love and attention, then let all the children be spoiled.
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