It's been a while since the figures of child sexual abuse got into my head and since then I don't take them out: one in four girls and one in seven boys suffer some form of sexual abuse before he turned 17. Similarly, the figures of physical and psychological abuse are tremendously high and all this worries me because it affects the psychological health of children, their integrity, their self-esteem and their future, and I have three of them, three children.
They don't take my mind off and things get worse when news like a Russian nanny who took care of a six-month-old girl appears, who he sedated her to then be able to do what I wanted, in this case to be able to drink alcohol and masturbate quietly. God…
Even those who seem more experienced cheat
The girl's parents hired her because she had a lot of experience In the care of babies. In fact, she was the first nanny they hired. After a few days being with her, they observed that the girl was behaving in a strange way, that she was not the same. They decided to do what any parent would do, put a hidden camera and see if something unusual happened in the hours he was with her.
Well, they caught her in fragantiWell, thanks to the video they could see that the babysitter spoke badly to the girl, that I gave him medication to fall asleep and that, once resting, he dedicated himself to drink alcohol already masturbate while watching television (I did not want to put the video because I found it very unpleasant, but it is on the Internet, in case you have enough stomach to bear to see such an energetic in action).
The 42-year-old babysitter has been denounced, of course, but it is necessary to think what would have happened if the parents had not smelled something strange. Maybe one day his hand would go away with the medication for the little girl, maybe one day his hand would go out with the bottle, maybe ...
Who do we leave our children with?
All this to remind you that Anyone, both outside the family and inside, can be a stalker, can stay with our children and can do real barbarities with them. The worst part is that they know how to deceive them or how to make them believe that it is normal. The worst part is that they know how to do it so that parents don't suspect. That is why the signs of our children, that is why when we see that something strange could be happening we should think that something could be happening.
The problem is that it is very difficult to separate the grain from the straw, because children often carry any separation badly and we may not be seeing what they tell us indirectly in our face. That's why in my house we will continue asking our children when they come with a bad face if something has happened in the time they have been without us, so we will continue to distrust. How disgusting, really, that there are people so immoral and so sick. How disgusting we always have to be watching that no sick adult gives free rein to his follies.
